Wedding goes on despite bombing

GAT Magazine
May/June 2006

Three devastating terrorist bombs in Dahab could not stop Anak Aldin and Kerstin Aldin-Hellman from getting married. Their wedding was scheduled at 8 o’clock at the Jasmine Restaurant, 45 minutes after the bombs exploded. They still held the wedding, albeit a couple of hours late, and under the most extraordinary of circumstances.

“When the bomb went off I was in the Bedouin camp doing make up and fixing hair,” says Kerstin, 27, from Sweden. “I asked the women around me about it and they said, ‘Don’t worry,’ and then [Anak] called a few minutes later and said, ‘are you alright—we’ll come get you,’ and the phone lines were busy so I didn’t hear anything after that.”

“Everyone was going this way and I had to go that way,” says Anak, a former fisherman from Iceland, 39. “I couldn’t get there and the driver said, ‘Everything is working out, it’s the Egyptian way.’ After one hour and a half I thought, ‘it’s not ok.’”

Instead of riding camels from the desert to the Red Sea, they walked hand in hand through the town as cars passed by—full of tourists escaping the tragedy. She wore a traditional Bedouin dress, with her hair twisted up in braids and her arms and legs covered in henna tattoos, while people fleeing the town stared at her and her groom .

“I walked to find her. I came there and I found this goddess. And we walked back—and I though t, ‘I have to go [to the site of the bomb,]’” says Anak. “I said, ‘alhumdulillah, I’m getting married.’”

Police did not let them enter the barricaded site of the bombs, so they continued through the emptying streets on their way to the Jasmine Hotel, located on the other side of town. Meanwhile, Gamal El Din, manager of the hotel, waited with coworkers for the couple to arrive.

“We thought [the first bomb] was a gas explosion. It was quite small at first,” says El Din, 22. “We all ran [to the bomb site] and then the second and third happened. We saw a lot of people die. I came back and I was very shocked. I saw heads without bodies or some bodies without a stomach. I couldn’t stay long.”

The hotel staff had arranged everything for the wedding. The restaurant was decorated, the music was organized, and a video photographer was booked. Instead, the staff wore solemn faces, the music was cancelled, and the photographer never showed.

The couple met only three weeks before coming to Dahab, on April 1st. They fell in love immediately and decided to take a vacation shortly thereafter.

“We looked into each other in the eyes, heart to heart; you just know. We’ve been together since then 24hours a day. We started talking and we just said, ‘How should we get married?’ It wasn’t, ‘should we get married; it was how should we get married?” says Kerstin.

They agreed to get married while eating dinner one night at the Penguin. “We were at the restaurant. Allah decided, my heart decided,” says Anak.

The couple did not have any friends or family in Dahab, but invited everyone they met in town. “People started talking about the clothes and the make up. We let the people organize for the dinner and we invited all the people we know. The chef came and said, ‘we can fix a goat for you.’ They made Bedouin food. It was a big ceremony. They worked all night making the food,” says Kerstin.

When they finally arrived, the staff was ecstatic. It was the only highlight in an otherwise heart wrenching evening. El Din brought a lawyer to make the contract and complete the marriage. “There was going to be big party, but the music wasn’t playing after that. We stopped everything, but we wanted to make them happy. “

“The bombing will not stop love. This is the way of Allah. The thing I can see out of all of is to open the heart, believe in love and don’t doubt. That will affect the town,” says Anak.

The town was eerily quiet the morning after the explosions that killed 21 and injured 85. After sunrise, several journalists were setting up cameras and taking photos of the shards of glass on the ground and stains of blood that had only recently dried.

There was so much blood and glass that people were standing in piles without even noticing them. Within a few hours, workers began pouring soapy water on the blood and scrubbed away the remnants.

A few doors down from the worst explosion, Mahmoud Abbas, the manager of the Spicy Man spice and oil store, was standing outside his shop. Only five minutes before the first bomb went off the night before, he served a customer from France. He was filling out paperwork for the order when he heard the first bomb. He saw people running down the street and he followed. He felt the next two bombs rattle his body.

“My God gave me a new life,” he says.

As tears nearly filled up his eyes, he recalled a friend that died 10 meters in front of his shop.

The bombs went off in the center of town, at 7:15pm, right as people were going out for dinner and shopping after a day at the beach. Each bomb exploded one after the other, all within a few hundred meters.

Abbas does not know what he will do next; the shop was destroyed in the blast. He worries tourism will be ruined. Either way, he has decided to stay. Other Dahab residents have mixed feelings about what will happen to tourism, the economic lifeblood of the town. Although the exodus was quick, many people decided to stay. Some of the hotels were still near full capacity.

“No one left, says El Din. “Our guests mostly live in Cairo. But four reservations didn’t come.”

“They never go to Dahab and not come back. Some people come nine or ten times. I don’t think new people will come now. A lot of people left today. Three big buses in the morning took people to travel, which is more than usual,” he says.

The Penguin Hotel, where Anak and his wife were staying, lost about 15% of their customers.

“Four left just because,” says Mohamed Inab, manager. “Some people just panicked. Two just arrived and left in a few hours. I tried to calm them down and tell them it’s safe now but they have an 8-year-old boy. We appreciate that [other guests] stayed. But they understand. They tell us, ‘If I ride a bus in London or Paris, that can happen.’ Tomorrow people are taking an excursion in a jeep in the desert.”

Inab expected tourism to go down anyway, since there is usually a dip in the summer. The town recovered quickly from the terrorist attack in Sharm El Sheik last July, as hotels were full in January, a few months later. But no one really knows what the long-term effects will be.

“One year from now [tourism] will be less. June was supposed to be slow. The World Cup comes soon, which is good because it will help people forget,” he says.


Nine guests from the Penguin Hotel were injured, three Egyptians and six foreigners. Three were seriously wounded and two of those were from Egypt. The last Inab heard, they were transferred from a hospital in Sharm El Sheik to Cairo.

“There’s no good hospital in Dahab. The hospital is very bad, so on the way to Sharm they probably died. There is only one car for the hospital; the rest [transporting injured people] were service cars,” says El Din.

If any attack or accident ever happened again, Inab says the government has to do something to address the lack of health care in town. Inab also says there needs to be better checkpoints on the roads and security in town.


“Security is doing nothing,” Inab says at his hotel, far from the site of the blasts.


Tourism Terror

It was apparent that the attack had the specific intent of disrupting tourism. There is very little in Dahab not connected to tourism, if anything at all. The bombs went off at the most active time of day, in the most crowded area and on one of the busiest days of the year.

"This incident is addressed to the whole of Egypt, there is no reason for it other than an attempt to destroy the economy of Egypt by attacking tourism," said Prime Minister Ahmed Nazif outside a hospital in a Sharm el-Sheik, where many of the victims were treated.

This bombing presents yet another challenge for the Egyptian government. In this year alone the cabinet has dealt with bird flu, the ferryboat accident in the Red Sea and now this.

Like the other two bombings on the Sinai Peninsula, this one was on a national holiday that brings extra tourists. The bomb in Taba and Ras Shitan that killed 34 in October 2004 was the day before a holiday to mark the start of the1973 Arab-Israeli war. The bomb in Sharm El Sheik last July 23 that killed 64 people was on Egypt National Day. The explosion in Dahab went off hours before the Sinai Liberation Day and also a day after the Coptic Easter.